The idea of love

Do one love the person for who they are or who you thought they are? Often people take a glimpse and make a superficial judgement on the person based on some basic information they figure out through friends, facebook, blog, looks, career, a little character or simple do they smoke, drink? Party? or cook, fun or nerd? Let's say girl A went out with her friends and they told her this amazing story about this guy, hot, smart, rich, good to friends, absolutely adorable. Later that night girl A went to facebook, look upon his profile, read his comments, felt his little funny side through the comments, random and interesting yet stable and responsible, ie everything she is looking for. Without her noticing, she started to fall in love with this guy without even talking to him. How did that happened? A little crush over a person she imagined to be perfect happened. See what I am trying to project to you? Telling you the story of girl A loving a guy who she thought to be the guy of her dreams. Now the story can go both ways, either Mr Perfect can ask her out and be the best guy ever for her (ie match made in heaven) or Mr Perfect can turn out to be Mr Player, Mr Free Spirit, Mr Jealous, Mr Control Freak, Mr Dreamer, Mr Sticky, Mr Everything but Mr Perfect. Either way, girl A let herself fall in love with the idea of being in love and not actually loving Mr so called Perfect. She let herself vunerable even before she started. So lesson: Miss A will know to learn and understand a person more than just what she believe or make herself believe in before falling in love because LOVE can be beautiful or ugly. It is the best and worst thing you can feel to get the ultimate love. Always love but love wisely :)

Decisions are superficial

When one makes an important decision, often running through their brains are tons of informations that made sense and don't make sense. Sometimes we are forced to make decisions, whether we like it or not. In the end of the day, people often tell you that it is good and wise that you make a decision when it turn out right. However, when it was the time you had to make a decision that seemed stupid and unwise, 101 people willl be there to object. Very true indeed every word and message given by these people made lots of sense and in fact you yourself will start contradicting to make your decision look so bad but you will still take the wrong one. Everyone deemed that it will be a mistake but will it be? Who is to decide what is wrong and what is right? People often say think and people often say do as your heart is contented. What if that is the happiness one is looking for, the heart and not the brain, not the soul and not the body but the heart? Humans are susceptible to making the wrong decision but it is important to make a decision than not making one. Leaving things hanging are never good, people hurt people on the way for a long time. Your decision may not be right but do what makes you happy not what makes everyone else happy even it hurts the most. It's like beautiful stars, everyone of them are so beautiful, captivating, yearning for you but you can never be certain it isn't dying. You just got to believe and do what you can to make it beautiful. Appreciate it