Often i wondered, is love an easy and bubbly thing? or is it meant to be difficult and complicated before u can be with the right guy?
Girls...are they creatures who are made to love and feel dependence? Guys...are they creatures made to protect and have high sexual drive? What are they?
Is that why when a raw relationship started, it is often rocky and difficult to understand? Is this why girls demand attention and time (love and dependence) from the guys and the guys feel the pressure and being pushed away yet they can't leave because of their protective nature and guilt leading to a draggy relationship that eventually ends or both party have to try so hard to change?
Is this normal or is this just another assumption that the first real relationship is just this way?
Those who truly believe in love and soul mates will be finding the other half. When they do, they will love so deep like they never love before. The feeling of i can't lose this person is always there leading to all sort of problems (ie. insecurity, trust, dependence, want, needs, listener, space)..everything u can imagine that can break a relationship apart.
Should you be patient if u are faced with this situation, where you love someone so deep and yet you know he/she is not the right one? And are you sure you are actually loving him and not that you are afraid you can't find another person who can give you 'the' feeling or love you that deep or even worse because you believe you care for this person so you cant leave?
In the end, you will sit down and ask yourself, if this relationship is meant to be, why is it so difficult?
